It's not their fault - the book authors, your friends, your study leader. I understand that. But it doesn't make the pain ease up at all. Anyone else who has struggled with infertility knows what I'm talking about. You sit down to read your devotional or (God forbid!) have a group Bible study, open your book, and at the top of the page: CHILDREN . It doesn't matter what the rest of the title says, because that's the only word you see, staring up at you like a big red light that, by turns, is mocking you and judging you. You think, "That's it, I'm out. This whole lesson doesn't apply to me." Or perhaps wonder what is so wrong with you that God doesn't want you to raise children. You maybe start comparing yourself to other moms in your study group, and before long, little seeds of resentment start to germinate as you think, "Why does she get to use this parenting knowledge and I don't? I mean, I'm better than her at ...